Al-Anon/Alateen is self-supporting through members' voluntary conributions. There are no dues or fees for membership. 

Al-Anon is a mutual support group. Everyone at the meeting shares as an equal. No one is in a position to give advice or direction to anyone else. Everyone at the meeting has experienced a problem with someone else's drinking. 

"You are free to ask questions or to talk about your situation at your first meeting. If you’d rather just listen, you can say “I pass,” or explain that you’d just like to listen."

Every meeting is different. Each meeting has the autonomy to be run as its members choose, within guidelines designed to promote Al-Anon unity. However, ALL who have been affected by someone else's drinking are welcome. Al-Anon recommends you try at least six different meetings before you decide if Al-Anon will be helpful to you. 

Al-Anon is not a religious program.  Even when the meeting is held in a religious center, the local Al-Anon group pays rent to that center and is not affilited in any way with any religious group.  Your religious beliefs - or lack of them- are not a subject for discussion at Al-Anon meetings, which focus solely on coping with the effects of someone's drinking.

It will take some time to fully understand the significaance of anonymity to the Al-Anon program.  But it is simplest level, anonymity means that the people in the room will respect the confidentality of what you say and won't approach you outside the room in a way that compromises your privacy or the privacy of anyone who attended an Al-Anon meeting.

The meeting will likely begin with a reading of the Twelve Steps of Al-Anon. It will take some time to fully understand how the Twelve Steps can be a helpful tool recovering from the effects of someone's drinking. But Al-Anon gives you the opportunity to grow at your own pace.